3 Proven Ways to Change Your Attitude CareerMetis.com

3 Proven Ways to Change Your Attitudeâ€" CareerMetis.com Original Image Source â€" Depositphotos.com“Whether you think you can, or you think you can’t â€" you’re right”Oh, how Henry Ford was right. Our attitude is everything!And self-confidence is an extremely powerful thing. With the right attitude you will build a self-confidence that will be your prince in a shiny armor Think of a little child. A smiling 4-year-old girl with eyes that lightens up when she’s telling you about how she wants that little pony for her Birthday. How that little pony can live in the garage. It’s no big deal, she can feed the pony before she goes to the kindergarten. And if her father needs to have his car in the garage, the pony can sleep in her room. It’s easy peasy!For her, it’s possible. For a grown up, it’s not evalAnother way to change your attitude is by training your mind. You might ask: “How do I train my mind so I finally can change my attitude?”.Well, you can do so by using two words consisting of only three single letters. The words “I AM”. These two words have been called the most powerful words in the Universe, and I couldn’t agree more.Let me give you an example…Let’s say that you have a colleague that is a pain in the part of your body that is placed right beneath your back… And let’s call this colleague by the name of John.If you are constantly telling yourself Let’s take a look at how those words can help you make a new attitude when it comes to this colleague of yours:I amhappy that I have colleagues like John that is totally different from me. It just helps me appreciate the rest of my colleagues even more!I am glad that someone at the office get good jobs. I am going to do my best to get those jobs myself!In the beginning, it might seem a bit artificial, but things will change… Give it a try, it’s worth it! And who knows? Maybe John will change based on your new attitude towards him!Here’s another example of the words “I Am”:Let’s say it’s 5:30 am. Your alarm goes of f. You might think this:“Aaaargh! I amso tired! I need more sleep! Let me snooze 10 minutes!” What you could think instead is this: “It’s 5:30. My alarm worked today as well. I amready to start a new day.” You see the difference?evalI know it seems kind of phony, but give it a try!Before we go to the next way to change your attitude, I want you to take a look at these two phrases as well:I amso stressed out right nowI amready to do a change, because of the stress that has affected me latelyWhich of these two phrases felt most exhausting? And which gave you most hope of a new beginning? I think you will say that number 1 felt most exhausting. Even if those two phrases say exactly the same thing, it’s howyou say it. It’s how you put it that makes all the difference!Start today, right here, right now: Say something positive after the words “I Am”, and you will feel the difference. You will!If you only have this in mindAlways keep in mind that you cannot change your pa st. None of us can. You cannot change how other people act either. It’s all up to them.Unfortunately, you cannot change the unavoidable, even if you try your very best. Even if so many people out there have been begging, crying and praying that it was possible to change the unavoidable, none of us can. Unfortunately.What you can change, is your attitude. Changing your attitude is all up to you. No one in this world can change your attitude, but you. No one. Ever.When you use as little as three minutes every single morning thinking of howyou can do your very best that day, you have come far. You have.You see…You will come up with good ideas, you will become more positive and resolute.By doing so, you start changing your mindset. For the better. And remember what we talked about in the beginning of this article:It’s 90% mindset, my friend!You can read more about planning and having the right mindset in one of my blog posts right here!